Monday, January 21, 2013

Healing Marriages (Prayer Included)

God wants to heal marriages and families.  If there is one thing the enemy will fight hard against, it’s the power of two in agreement. He is after marriages, families and covenant relationships. 


Dear Heavenly Father,

Help us shut the enemy out of our marriage and family. We repent for anger, power struggles, poor communication and dishonoring one another. We repent for any ways that we have rejected or disrespected one another. We chose to forgive each other of the past and we will not bring up old issues. We will not continue to blame each other for things that happened in the past. We repent for any sins of ourselves or others in our family line that led to adultery, jealousy, broken vows, and betrayal of trust or broken commitments. We ask that the sins of the past be broken off of us and forgiven. We ask You, Lord Jesus, to receive us as Your own. We believe You can heal our marriage and make it healthy. Let this be a brand new day.

We renounce fear, unloving spirits, anger, condemnation and criticism. We repent and renounce any ways we have entertained fault finding. Today we ask for grace to modify our behavior, to know when to remain silent, and appropriate ways of addressing issues. We ask for a release of Your love and grace to help bring lasting change. Give us eyes to see the positive things and help us bless those things deserving of praise. Help us to replace bad habits with good ones.

We come together now in a prayer of agreement, asking that you help us recover trust, love, honor and respect. Holy Spirit, forgive us for grieving you and not honoring Your authority over our marriage. We make a covenant with You now, and ask that You speak to us, bless us with wisdom and counsel from above. Help us to remember to honor You and ask You for help. Please protect our marriage from the plots and schemes of the evil one and workers of iniquity. Come and refresh our marriage. You can make all things new. You can resolve issues that on our own strength we cannot. Let the hurt feelings be washed away by the power of Your love. Breathe a fresh wind into us individually, but also into us as a couple, and let your love wash over our children, too. Fill us with Yourself, Holy Spirit. We need You. We cannot revive ourselves. Please, help us come back into divine order in all things and shut the enemy out of our thoughts, our responses, our family and our future. In Jesus name, amen .






6 comments:

  1. please pray that my wife and kids will come back to me and we can become stronger with Jesus's help,and everything to be negative and that it's all over and no more comes of it,so then my wife and kids can come back to me and we can be a family and be stronger in each other and our marriage and our family,i love my wife and kids so much with all my heart and miss them every day,Please Lord Jesus help and hear my prayers and see my pain,please help with all my request and let them be answered thank you my Lord,

    ReplyDelete
  2. Father God I thank you right now Lord Jesus God for blessing Keith Murphy's marriage. Lord Jesus I thank you for bringing his wife and children back home I thank you for making them 1 in Jesus mighty name. I think you for binding the hand of confusion and miscommunication. Thank you for continuing to unlock the doors of blessings in their marriage. Gotye thank you for everything that you're doing right now in the name of Jesus God protect there sexual relationship Lord Jesus God. Helped them to be able to set time aside for each other in the name of Jesus. Deliver them both from anything that fuses anger. Deliver them from a judgemental spirit. Increase the understanding for one another Lord Jesus is God. Lord God help Keith and his wife let you be one and first and their life. Help keeping his wife always be able to set time aside for each other let them both be a tentative and understanding to each others needs God put them together in love and unity let them have a helpful healthy peaceful life from this day forward in Jesus name I pray amen and thank you Lord God for answering my prayer

    ReplyDelete

  3. I will pray for your marriage Keith...please pray for mine...My wife left me 7months ago, Lucy has anxiety issues which have kept me bound to my property for 5years un able to even spend time enjoying everyday activity's with my children, her anxiety's which i submitted to(under the banner of love bears all things) caused her so much guilt because i was basically a prisoner, she is unable to accept me looking at any other woman,i have explained over and over that to find others attractive is
    not unnatural, that just because they are attractive does not mean i love them or have un healthy intentions,she bottles her emotions drinks then becomes a totally different person,often violent and abusive,I love her deeply and spent the first 3-4 months of the separation daily breaking down crying often 3-4 x a day,i am a juggling the day to day care of my two children, house hold dutys,i live in New Zealand and own a 30acre piece of land, a lot to cope with along with the grief and stress associated with separation.
    I pray regularly for healing and restoration,their are many other side issues along with her anxiety's, she is a non believer and says she cant see a way to return home or how to overcome her mindsets, the separation is making things more difficult to navigate, she is opposed to any of my advice and is not open to even taking small steps to recovery with me at home a a pace that suits her so because i now have to go out and do things like shopping and have returned to church and done some recreational activity's with my children i find myself regularly verbally abused, hung up on,or totally ignored as in her mind i am doing these things to hurt her,while she is going to concerts, partys and often has drinks with friends at her flat all of which hurt me as she often calls me drunk full of bitterness spite resentment and anger.....Help this is such a mess...please pray for us and her salvation,a miracle or Gods divine intervention.

    Thank you Mark

    God Bless.

    ReplyDelete

  4. I wiil pray for your marriage Keith...please pray for mine..My wife left me 7months ago Lucy has anxiety issues which have kept me bound to my property for 5years un able to even spend time enjoying everyday activity's with my children, her anxiety's which i submitted to(under the banner of love bears all things) caused her so much guilt because i was basically a prisoner, she is unable to accept me looking at any other woman,i have explained over and over that to find others attractive is
    not unnatural, that just because they are attractive does not mean i love them or have un healthy intentions,she bottles her emotions drinks then becomes a totally different person,often violent and abusive,I love her deeply and spent the first 3-4 months of the separation daily breaking down crying often 3-4 x a day,i am a juggling the day to day care of my two children, house hold dutys,i live in New Zealand and own a 30acre piece of land, a lot to cope with along with the grief and stress associated with separation.
    I pray regularly for healing and restoration,their are many other side issues along with her anxiety's, she is a non believer and says she cant see a way to return home or how to overcome her mindsets, the separation is making things more difficult to navigate, she is opposed to any of my advice and is not open to even taking small steps to recovery with me at home a a pace that suits her so because i now have to go out and do things like shopping and have returned to church and done some recreational activity's with my children i find myself regularly verbally abused, hung up on,or totally ignored as in her mind i am doing these things to hurt her,while she is going to concerts, partys and often has drinks with friends at her flat all of which hurt me as she often calls me drunk full of bitterness spite resentment and anger.....Help this is such a mess...please pray for us and her salvation,a miracle or Gods divine intervention.

    Thank you Mark

    God Bless.

    ReplyDelete
  5. It's very helpful blog with important information well done.
    how to fix a broken marriage

    ReplyDelete
  6. I have been married for last 3 months. we are having issues in terms of family and finance. my husband left his job after marriage because i paid my parents bill out of my before marriage income. he has not been working from last 2 months. i have been working and taking care of all our bill. now after marriage i have around $12,000 debt and i make $5500 still we are not able to save because my husband has one or the other expenses and also i pay half of my in-laws bills. he is on student visa and i am U.S. Citizen. i had my condition before marriage that i will give my half salary to my parents and he agreed to it after marriage he changed his words. he made me take quran in my hand and asked me to say i wont see my parents without his permission and i wont give any money to in family. his visa is in process. he used to work at gas station before marriage. i have not told my parents that i am working and he is unemployed. my parents don't know his visa is under process. please help me what should i do. he is not even ready to sign post nuptial agreement. and he don't tell me where he goes and what he do. he withdraw money from account and dont inform me. I talked to him about all this but no change since i reach Dr. Ikhine for help via agbadado@gmail.com everything has change for good also reach him on call +2348056932230

    ReplyDelete