Tuesday, October 27, 2015

Verses for a Resurrection Miracle

Whatever you're believing for is what you make room to receive. It's a principle of agreement that actually produces an expectation in the spiritual realm. If you come into agreement with negative thoughts, you are actually making room to receive the fulfillment of your fears, and whatever negative words that you speak. Faith works on the opposite spectrum. Jesus said we would have whatever we believed we would have, and He taught on the principal of agreement. Speak life. Jesus never made room for death. He always prepared for life because HE IS LIFE. The kingdom of God is at hand, and so is His resurrection power, to bring forth life. Make room for what you believe by welcoming His Spirit and His life to flow where it's needed.

If you read Matthew 9 23 and 24, a ruler came searching out Jesus and ask for his daughter to be healed because she was near death. The first thing Jesus said was MAKE ROOM... in other words he was saying enlarge your faith, step aside and watch Me do the impossible. We have to make room for the miracle to come in! 

Faith always requires an action to trigger God’s response. Faith is not passive. When we really grab hold of this truth, it causes people to get up and do something they wouldn't have done otherwise. It causes them to partner their faith, their conversation and their worship with God. Backing up in that portion of scripture, in Matthew 9:18 it said that the ruler came and WORSHIPED before making his request. When we come before the king, protocol dictates that we bring a gift. Worship is our gift to God. Sometimes we also need to ask, "God what would you have me do as an act of faith to show you that I'm really believing you for this to occur?" Sometimes He will drop a thought into our hearts of something we need to do as something practical or even a prophetic act. When I was believing for a child and was told I couldn't get pregnant, we went out and bought a little baby outfit and prayed over it and called that child forth, prophesying into my womb. I declares healing scriptures over myself until my condition changed.There have been other things that we have done when we were standing on other promises. Faith takes a corresponding action to partner with God so that we can receive what we're asking for.

Praying the Scriptures for Revival and Restoration
Speak life! The natural realm is subjective to God’s spiritual laws. Therefore, when we declare God’s word over troubling circumstances, sooner or later the natural earthly realm must yield in submission to the higher spiritual laws contained in the scriptures. This is the way God purposed it, and that is why we can boldly and confidently proclaim, “Let it be done on earth as it is in heaven!” Speak the scriptures and the declarations in faith and expect God to turn that situation around!
Father,
Your word is truth. I believe it, and I’m putting my trust in the integrity of who You are. You are holy. You sacrificed your very own life for me, for my household...and for (insert name of person you are praying for). Your word says in Romans 8:32, He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him over for us all, how will He not also with Him freely give us all things? I believe in You, Lord Jesus. You would not have died in our place if You did not intend to give us what we ask for and need in order to live in health and wholeness. You said in John 10:10 that You came to give us abundant life, so I am asking on (_______’s) behalf, that You give him/her the abundant life that You promised. I stand in faith and remind You of Your promises, and as I declare Your word to You, I ask that You release the power contained in Your word to accomplish all Your will and purpose. I ask You to release angels to carry out the fulfillment of Your promises.
Therefore, in the name and authority that You have given me as Your blood-bought child, and as a co-heir along with Christ, I do declare:
Psalm 68:20
"Our God is a God who saves; from the Sovereign LORD comes escape from death."
Declaration: Father, I thank You that You have saved (________) and delivered him/her from death according to Your word in Psalm 68:20.
Isaiah 38:16
"O Lord, by these things men live, And in all these is the life of my spirit; O restore me to health and let me live!"
Declaration: Father I thank You that the life of Your Spirit lives in (______). You have restored his health and let him live according to Isaiah 38:16.
Job 33:25
"Let his flesh become fresher than in youth, Let him return to the days of his youthful vigor; "
Declaration: Father, I thank You that (______’s) flesh is fresh and youthful, and You have restored his/her vigor according to Job 33:25.
1 Kings 19:7-8
"The angel of the LORD came again a second time and touched him and said, "Arise, eat, because the journey is too great for you."
Declaration: Father, I thank You for sending Your angel and Your Holy Spirit to touch (_______) a second, third or even a fourth time, to tell him/her to arise and be healed. Touch them again as you did for Elijah in 1 Kings 19:7-8, for You are willing to do it.
Psalm 116:8-9
"For You have rescued my soul from death, My eyes from tears, My feet from stumbling."
Declaration: Father, I thank You that You have rescued (_____’s) soul from death according to Psalm 116:8-9.
Ruth 4:14-15
"Then the women said to Naomi, "Blessed is the LORD who has not left you without a redeemer today, and may his name become famous in Israel."
Declaration: Father, I thank You that You have not left (_____) or our family without a redeemer. Redeem his/her life from death so that Your name may become famous once again, according to Ruth 4:14-15.
Titus 3:5-6
"He saved us, not on the basis of deeds which we have done in righteousness, but according to His mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewing by the Holy Spirit…"
Declaration: Father, I thank You that You have saved (_____) from death not because of his own righteousness, but according to Your mercy, by regenerating his/her mortal body and renewing him through Your Holy Spirit, according to Titus 3:5-6.
1 Thessalonians 1:5
"….for our gospel did not come to you in word only, but also in power and in the Holy Spirit and with full conviction; just as you know what kind of men we proved to be among you for your sake."
Declaration: Father, I thank You that the gospel of Jesus Christ is not only in word but in power of Your Holy Spirit. Let the power of Your Holy Spirit now raise (_______) up in complete health and restoration according to Your word in 1 Thessalonians 1:5.
Psalm 30:9
"What is gained if I am silenced, if I go down to the pit? Will the dust praise you? Will it proclaim your faithfulness?"
Declaration: Father, I thank You that You do not benefit from (______’s) death. Nothing is gained by silencing his voice and robbing him/her from being able to proclaim your goodness. Therefore, according to Your word, let his/her ability to speak and praise You be restored even better than before according to Psalm 30:9.
Jeremiah 17:14
"Heal me, O LORD, and I will be healed; Save me and I will be saved, For You are my praise."
Declaration: Father, I thank You for healing (_____) and giving him/her the ability to praise you again according to Jeremiah 17:14.
Psalm 41:1
"Blessed is the one who considers the poor! In the day of trouble the LORD delivers him;"
Declaration: Father, I thank You that because (______) has been kind to the poor and has been a constant source of provision to our family and others, You remember him/her and have delivered him in his day of trouble. Let it be done for him/her now according to Your word in Psalm 41:1.
Jeremiah 39:17
"But I will rescue you on that day, declares the LORD; you will not be given into the hands of those you fear."
Declaration: Father, I thank You that You have rescued (______) and have not given him/her into the hands of death. We do not fear because you are in control. Deliver (______) according to Your promise in Jeremiah 39:17.
Numbers 23:19
"God is not human, that he should lie, not a human being, that he should change his mind. Does he speak and then not act? Does he promise and not fulfill?"
Declaration: Father, I thank You that You are so holy and pure that You cannot lie. You don’t change your mind on what You’ve said. You don’t make empty promises and then not fulfill them! I EXPECT You to raise up (______) in health. I EXPECT You to restore his/her life better than before this health crisis occurred, because that’s just who you are. You watch over Your word to make sure it comes to pass, so now according to Your word, let it be fulfilled this day for (_____) .
Isaiah 55:11
"So will My word be which goes forth from My mouth; It will not return to Me empty, Without accomplishing what I desire, And without succeeding in the matter for which I sent it."
Declaration: Father, I thank You that Your word is anointed to bear fruit and it will not return to You empty. As I return Your word to You by speaking it out of my mouth, I thank You that it produces life. Let Your word have good success and prosper to accomplish what You have desired it to achieve, in Jesus name, amen.



Thursday, October 15, 2015

Don't Forget Your Keys!

In reading Matthew 16:18-19 today, something stood out to me that I thought I would share. Jesus was having a conversation with Peter, after Peter had the revelation that Jesus was the Christ, and declared that he was the Son of the Living God. Jesus turned to Peter and said, “And I also say to you that you are Peter, and on this rock I will build My church, and the gates of Hades shall not prevail against it. I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven; whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.”

Jesus was saying that He would build the church upon the same revelation that Peter had; Jesus was the Son of the Living God. But, then He went on to tell Peter that the gates of Hades, or Hell, would not prevail against the church. That’s us. Jesus wanted Peter to understand that He was giving His disciples the keys to the kingdom of heaven. Whatever they forbid on earth would be duly noted by heavenly administrators of justice and those statues would be carried out in the earthly realm. Likewise, whatever they permitted on earth would also be loosed from heaven and the answers sent back to the earthly realm.

There is a similar scripture in Isaiah 22:20-23. “The key of the house of David I will lay on his shoulder: so he shall open, and no one shall shut. And he shall shut, and no one will open. I will fasten him as a peg in a secure place, and he will become a glorious throne to his father’s house.”

The steward had the key that gave him an audience with the king. This idea is affirmed again in Revelation 3:7. Jesus Christ, the holy one who is called Faithful and True, had the key of David because He was the rightful son of David (see Matthew 1:1). The ‘key’ holds the entrance into the door of the New Jerusalem as it’s called, or the kingdom of heaven. It was Jesus’ prerogative as the rightful owner of the keys to give them to whomever He wished, and He gave them to His disciples. That is what He was trying to explain to Peter, and it’s what He keeps hoping WE will understand today. Friend, YOU HAVE THE KEYS TO HEAVEN. You have the keys to the church (that’s you!). YOU have the keys to lock the enemy out of your house. You have the keys to lock the gates and secure the doors to make sure that Satan’s plans are shut down. Get up and go get your keys!

The enemy has no rights unless we allow him to have them. Stop complaining, stop blaming others, and stop feeling helpless. The enemy doesn’t have the keys anymore, remember? You do! Simply remember that God has given you authority and use the keys He gave you! You have the authority to lock the door! You have the authority to forbid the thief, the oppressor and the murderer from taking from you and your family. You also have the authority to ask for angelic assistance to bring you the things you loose from heaven.

Another very interesting thing I took note of is found wedged between “The Offended Brother” in Matthew 18:15-17 and verses 19 & 20 that mention prayers of agreement. It’s tucked in between as if it is all part of the same conversation. I asked the Lord, “Lord, was it part of the same conversation or something You said at another time?” “Why was it written in my Bible as if it was all part of the same dialogue? Are You trying to tell us that we even have authority on earth to bind up offenses and just forbid them from happening?” That intrigued me.

Perhaps we won’t know for sure until we just start forbidding offenses from occurring and loosing God’s grace, humility and understanding. Personally, I believe God will honor the prayer of faith. What if we all started praying that just as a little experiment? Do you wonder what effect it could have? Start with where you have been given authority and influence: your family, your workplace, pray it over your church, neighborhood and increase your prayers into ever-widening targeted areas. Pray for no offenses in your city. Bind up that spirit of misunderstanding, offense and anger. Loose the graciousness of God to touch the ears of those that hear.Ask Him to remove the filters off the ears of others that would cause them to hear something that wasn’t intended. Pray that people will hear without taking in offense. That will have a ripple effect that reaches far and wide.

One thing I do know is that Jesus was obviously reaffirming the concept of the transfer of authority to His disciples because He repeated what He said to Peter.  Vs. 18: “Assuredly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.” AUTHORITY TO RULE. The question is, are YOU using it? It’s already done. Whatever problem or issue that is coming against you, your loved ones, or even in our cities or our nation...if it’s not permitted in heaven, then it should not be permitted on earth. If it is permitted in heaven, then it can be loosed as an answer to come and invade earth. In the kingdom of heaven, the answers have already been determined. All we need to do is to call it out of heaven and tell the right thing to manifest in the earthly realm. By faith, we call those things we can’t see and tell them to exist. When our faith agrees with what has already been determined in heaven, God can then release the answer to our prayers. In the mere twinkle of an eye, what didn’t exist before, suddenly just is. We say YES, Lord to Your will, Your plans and purposes coming forth. Let it be done on earth as it is in heaven. Amen.

Wednesday, October 7, 2015

Waterloo

I woke up in the middle of the night to an odd word, and the melody to an old 70’s song running through my mind. It was so unusual to wake up at 3:30 in the morning with this word. I knew it had to be from the Lord. The word was “Waterloo.”


Waterloo is commonly understood to mean “a decisive defeat or failure." It is a well known fact that Napoleon Bonaparte, the commanding general of French troops, surrendered to the British, admitting his defeat. It all began on June 18, 1815, when allied forces, consisting of British, Dutch, Belgian and German soldiers, thwarted the attempts of European domination by the French general and emperor, Napoleon Bonaparte. The battle marked the end of the Napoleonic Wars (1803-1815), which took the lives of 5 million people. (Time.com) As I researched the significance of this famous battle, what stood out to me is the fact that the French were fighting the British for world dominance. France had been the reigning world superpower up until that point, but when France was out of the way, it paved the way for the U.K. to obtain global power. It also laid the foundations for the U.S. to eventually become the world’s superpower.


Knowing that the Lord is speaking about a “Waterloo” experience causes me to dig deeper on this subject. It is no secret that we all have a common enemy. Satan, of course. He works in a myriad of ways, always trying to plot and scheme against us so that he can get us to admit defeat and surrender. We have a very real threat in enemies both within and without. Those within us, and those outside of us;  within the United States as well as threats from foreign nations. Every one of them is fighting for world dominance. The agenda of any enemy will always be to take dominion away from us and bring us into captivity.


Another interesting tidbit worth mentioning is the fact that once a nation was humbled and conquered by a foreign power, the first thing the victor did was to send out ambassadors to effect change in the area of cultural colonization. This is essentially the role of an apostle, but the enemy has his apostles, too. Cultural colonization imposes a culture by force and occupation, displacing and replacing the native culture with the one of the dominant foreign culture. This has always been the way of settling the land and forcing the inhabitants to adopt the beliefs, religion, and culture of those with the stronger military force. They conquered and subdued those within that land, even though many times it was by force. Up to now, American culture has been the prevailing influence as a global power, but if we do not rise up and take back the dominion that God has given us, we too can suffer a humiliating defeat - a Waterloo of epic proportions. Islamic fundamentalism is on the rise and in many people, it’s setting off the alarm bells. ISIS has been testing our boundaries, testing our military force and challenging authority while seemingly little or nothing is done about it. We have a military force that is weakened and unprepared because of current political leadership. Various terrorist organizations have breached important infrastructure firewalls, highly classified information has been made public by whistle blowers, and it just doesn’t stop. The world has been watching as our weaknesses have been laid bare for all to see. It is not difficult to predict what will eventually come as the result of all this. Make no mistakes; our enemies absolutely have an agenda towards world dominance and they are very bold about making it known. Any one of our enemies would love to see America fall so that they could replace us as a global power. The question is, “How will we choose to respond?” That answer will determine our future, and our children’s futures. History always repeats itself. If we fail to learn from the past, we will be forced to learn the same historic lessons. We cannot afford to give away our God-given dominion through casual neglect. God gave ALL mankind the command to exercise dominion and to subdue the earth, but not everyone will exercise what they have been given. The right to rule has been afforded to those who take God seriously. The difference between the enemy and the church as a whole is that foreign enemies fight to win, while the church, for the large part, does not. We've gotten so used to compromise that we embrace sin instead of annihilating it and holding ourselves to a higher standard. I'm not advocating legalism or religiousness, but the church in a collective sense does seem to lack conviction and commitment, and that is why our nation is weak. It's why congregations often display a shallow form of Christianity but lack the power that demonstrates the reality of the kingdom of God. We have to own the fact that we are lukewarm. Do you know what Jesus said about those who were lukewarm? He said he would vomit them out of his mouth! That's serious! 

''I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot; I wish that you were cold or hot.'So because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of My mouth." Rev. 3:16

We can no longer afford to lack passion for the cause of Christ, because this is what has landed us, as a nation of people, in the predicament we're in. The reality is, whoever will not enforce the rule of God’s kingdom will be overcome by those exercising dominion of a different kingdom.


“God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. God blessed them; and God said to them, "Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it; and rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over every living thing that moves on the earth." Genesis 1:27,28


I am not one that wants to preach judgment over America, and I don’t wish this article to come across with that sort of prevailing thought. I do, however, recognize the dangerous times in which we live. There will always be warnings and if we heed them, we can avert many of the things that God warns us about. The absolute worst thing we could do is to continue in apathy. We cannot afford to display disinterest towards recognizing the opportunity to effect change while the opportunity still exists. We are God’s ambassadors, His ‘sent ones’ to call heaven down to earth with our prayers. We cannot depend upon the government or our military to fight our battles, because at this present moment we have people in powerful positions that are thwarting efforts to put their foot down on the enemy’s neck. We can, however, accomplish that through prayer. We can ask God to intervene and to raise up those that will help take down the enemy no matter where he is hiding. God has proven throughout history that He is capable of winning the war by many or by few. He calls the unsuspecting, the weak, the most unusual sort of people to do mighty acts for Him. Yet, He is looking for a humble people that will recognize their own need for change, and the genuine fruit of repentance that says, “God, change begins with me. I am not You. I am a flawed human being in need of a Savior. I want to know my sins are forgiven and I am in right standing with You, and I’m asking you to help me to walk out this transformation into Your likeness so that I fulfill what I was put on earth to do.” People wonder what their purpose is. It is contained in knowing Christ and in fulfilling His assignments.


A notable characteristic about Napoleon Bonaparte was his pride. He was, without a doubt, a very successful leader. He is still remembered in history as one of the greatest military strategists and leaders that has ever lived. But, like many people and many nations before him, it was pride that put him in the place of needing to be humbled. What is true of nations is often true of individuals. Pride goes before a fall.


“When pride comes, then comes dishonor, But with the humble is wisdom. The integrity of the upright will guide them, But the crookedness of the treacherous will destroy them.…” Prov. 11:2,3


“Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.” Prov. 16:18


We can either come to God willingly or we can find ourselves in need of a Waterloo experience - utter defeat and humiliation as the enemy we give place to grows stronger and overcomes us.


Let’s take this down a notch and make this personal. This word is good for the nation but it’s also good for the individual. The only real choices we have in life is to either choose to serve God, or serve our enemies. Satan works through the lives of those that refuse to submit to the Lord Jesus Christ. This is Biblical truth. With those two choices in mind, we are faced with making a necessary decision. Whom will we serve?


God Almighty is not on the side of wicked oppressors. He is not on the side of injustice, cruelty, murder or deception. He does not give His consent, allegiance or help to treacherous people, and He certainly does not support or endorse anyone that comes only to kill, steal or act as a destroyer because that would be aligning himself with Satan and the kingdom of darkness. God stands adamantly opposed to those that manifest those qualities, and eventually, their pride will usher in their defeat and humiliation. (Look in the end of the Book, the adversaries don't win!!). Doesn't it make sense to do something intentional to place your allegiance with the winning side? That should be a no brainer, right?

Jesus was none of those things. He acted in complete love and humility, offering His life in exchange for the sin of mankind. He shed His blood to redeem mankind from the penalty that our sins deserved. Jesus came to destroy the works of the evil one, and to lovingly rescue those that would identify with the one and only true God of heaven and earth. We are always free to choose. God gave us our own free will and He won’t violate it. He is not like the enemy’s ambassadors that are sent out with the agenda of forcibly making converts and violating people's will under threat of violence and death. God does want to affect cultural change, but He accomplishes it in a much different manner, through love. But, though we are free to make our own choice, we must still bear the consequences of whatever choices we make. We cannot escape that. If we fail to choose Christ, other masters will have dominion over us. The Bible says that we cannot serve two masters. If we try we will either love one and hate the other because they will be adamantly opposed to one another. Doesn’t it make sense that agreeing with what Jesus has already done on the cross is in our best interest? To know that your name is written in the Lamb’s Book of Life and your sin is forgiven? Doesn’t it make sense that agreeing with the God that is already on your side is the best possible choice? You don’t have to work for it. His love and acceptance are already secure towards those that draw near to Him. The work is already done. All you have to do is choose to believe in your heart and confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus is your God. Then get to know Him better by coming into a personal relationship with Him.


In light of this knowledge, “Waterloo” takes on a whole new meaning. Waterloo was a place of surrender. Maybe you’re feeling drawn to that place right now. There are many things to which one can surrender their mind and will; but, pray that it would be to things that are good and worthy of your loyalty and allegiance. Jesus Christ has already proven that He would do anything for you, because He gave His life for all of mankind.


“What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us? He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all things?” Romans 8:31,32


It is a choice to enter into this relationship with the Creator of the Universe (who is your heavenly Father) and His Son, the Lord Jesus Christ. It’s recognizing that the gospel really is good news, and coming into agreement with God’s word. This is true humility, and humility will save you from falling by pride. It is the heart recognizing there is a need to ask for forgiveness so that the heart and conscience can be cleansed from the guilt stain of sin.


If we [freely] admit that we have sinned and confess our sins, He is faithful and just [true to His own nature and promises], and will forgive our sins and cleanse us continually from all unrighteousness [our wrongdoing, everything not in conformity with His will and purpose].” 1 John 1:9 AMP


We learn to adopt a renewed mindset because our old one was already defeated. Our lives are already defeated without Christ in the center of it. We lose our own self will and gain His loving guidance, wisdom and godly counsel for our lives, and for the benefit of our families. So, we lose the battle with self rule but we win the war. And somewhere in this whole process called life we learn what real love really looks like. And, we learn to love Him back. This is what genuine repentance looks like, and it makes the whole idea of surrender a whole lot more appealing. We recognize that our destiny and purpose are contained in knowing Christ. That's when we can say, "You know, Lord, I can agree with this. I think I'm ready to change the way I think, and the way I live. If you help me live for You, I will do it."


Let’s end this with a prayer, and agree that God will touch people with their own “Waterloo experience.” It’s a place of humble repentance and surrender, bringing defeat to the god of self rule, independence and ultimately, closing the door to the enemy so that God can bring the victory. So, we say defeat to the enemy through our prayer of humility and by the grace of God, we ask for Him to let our enemies not have dominion over us.


Father God,

Please touch every heart in this nation, my state and the city in which I live. Touch my heart, God. Open the eyes of our hearts to acknowledge that we cannot afford to live without You at the center of our lives. Renew our minds with truth, Lord. Let our hearts be moldable and conformed to Your will. I ask You, Jesus, to forgive my sin, as I accept by faith that You already have, but I confess it to You so that You would cleanse me from unrighteousness and the guilt of my sin. I declare You are Lord, and I reject and refuse all ungodly masters over my life. I willingly come to You and ask that You give me the grace and strength to live a life that honors You. Help me, please, to pray Your will on earth as it is in heaven. I give you permission - in advance of every temptation and struggle that I might encounter - to change my heart, my responses, and my behaviors. Change what comes out of my mouth so that it honors You and keeps me from stumbling. I don't want to grant the enemy a victory out of my own weaknesses or foolishness. I'll yield to you, so You take the wheel! Let every enemy both within me, and outside of me - all that are opposed to the Lordship of Jesus Christ be humbled and defeated, in Jesus name. I ask You to raise up those in our nation and even outside of our nation, that will thwart the enemy’s plans and ungodly agendas. Let every plot and scheme be unraveled so that the enemy suffers humiliating defeat. Give Satan and the kingdom of darkness their Waterloo experience that puts them to an open shame, knowing that once again God has prevailed and they did not. In Jesus name, amen.  

Friday, October 2, 2015

Overcoming A Spirit of Rejection

Did you know a spirit of rejection can come through the womb as a generational curse? A spirit of rejection works alongside fear, It creates an inner voice that tells the individual they are unworthy, unlovable and inferior. The enemy will set people up to experience situations that confirm those negative thoughts, because negative experiences serve as a form of validation, that what they think, feel or have experienced is a basis for truth. This is how the enemy creates a false belief system in an individual. Once the person accepts the lie that they are flawed, unlovable, unaccepted, unworthy and rejected, they will then begin to create their own man-made 'fig leaves' to cover their feelings of rejection.

Rejection will cause people to feel unloved. If they feel unloved, then the next course of action is to find something to fill that void. Paying inordinate amount of attention to make up, appearance, drinking and recreational drug use, gambling, shopping or other impulsive behaviors can be the result of a spirit of rejection.
Rejection can drive a person to perfectionism, become nit picky and critical of others, and results in self rejection. It's a no win situation because the person suffering from rejection develops negative behaviors to try to compensate for feeling rejected, even if they can't verbalize why they do what they do, but those negative behaviors can end up sabotaging relationships. People with a spirit of rejection may also feel prone to acting out in other attention getting behaviors, look for flattery or other forms of praise because they feel those things somehow validate their ability to feel accepted and normal. They feel driven to over compensate for their inner voices that tell them they are an outsider, unwanted, rejected, or unable to find acceptance in the places that they feel are important.
Do you need healing from rejection? If so, begin by renouncing all generational curses tied to a spirit of rejection that came through the womb and attached themselves to you. Forgive your mother and father, your ancestors, and others for things that resulted in you feeling unloved, rejected, unable to measure up, unworthy and unaccepted. They too, were probably victims of a generational curse that caused them to develop negative behaviors. They too, probably had people in their life that the enemy worked through to create a sense of rejection and unworthiness in them. Then it got passed on to you. If a person feels unloved and rejected themselves, they will have a difficult time loving others. Renounce unloving spirits, familiar spirits, lying spirits as well as a spirit of rejection. Ask the Lord to forgive you and your other family members for falling short in the area of love and acceptance, and ask for the blood of Jesus to cover those sins. Ask the Lord for a revelation of God's love and acceptance towards you to unravel the lies of the enemy, and help you see yourself as God sees you. This will help re-establish your God-given identity, and defeat the power of the enemy's lies. Don't pass it on to your kids; break the cycle and reverse the curse.

Here is a link to a prayer to help break the power of fear and rejection:
http://xpectamiracle.blogspot.com/2012/03/prayer-against-self-hatred-and.html